Well it seems its good I live so far away from my father I've obviously been so far away I've not realised hes still a first class twat. I can honestly say I wish he'd die..I hate him that much. I know to many people thats awful but if you had a dad like us you'd wish it too. It would be a relief!
Basically hes always been a bully, hes worst when hes drunk. However when hes sober he doesnt really talk to us much anyway and can be really moody. On friday i was at mums as usual. Turned up and mum was upstairs and dad was listening to music up at its very highest (deafening) level, he was drunk and annoying, as usual when hes drunk.
As the night wore on he was basically trying to wind us all up, saying some really nasty things about Simon, about my sisters fiance, about my other sister and worst of all my mum..he was so horrible to her. Calling her names, pushing her..if it wasn't for Carol getting in his way a few times I think he'd have hurt mum. Hes soooooooooo evil. We all tried to stay quiet, smiling and nodding along at whatever he said so hopefully he'd go to bed and give us all peace but he kept coming back. Then at one point he went up to mum with a glass in his hand and just stared at her, like really close to her face and she jokingly made a face at him and he seemed to rage at her (i thought he was gonna smash the glass in her face) and Mikey saw this so I went and got Mikey. Dad was like "hes alright" and I said "no hes not I dont want him seeing you treat my mum like that" and he said the usual "och get a life". He then kept swearing over and over after both my mum and sister had asked him not to because Mikey picks things up easily, by this point Im getting really pissed off with him. Then I'm reading the paper while Diane (my eldest sis) is holding daniel, Dan cries which is ok I dont wanna run up and grab him, its alright to let a kid cry for a wee bit plus I was nearly finished reading anyway and dads like "Karen! Karen!" (in a really patronising way) "daniel wants you" and I just felt like he was teling me what to do with my own kids. I stayed quiet but annoyed and took Daniel. He then continued to swear and I flipped. I asked him to stop swearing and he started going on and on about "education being a wonderful thing" (his annoying motto), he said "Mikey needs to learn to be streetwise" and no one tells him what to do. I'm now seeing red. I basically asked him to stop shouting at me, I repeated that a million times and he said "no one tells me what to do" and I said I'm not telling you I'm asking" and then when he said about Mikey being streetwise I said "for goodness sake hes 4, hes got a long time before he needs to be streetwise and anyway your his grandad he doesn't need to learn bad words from his own grandad". I was told to get a life, he said "you think your kids are better than everyone elses" to which i said "no i dont but I dont think i want my 4 year old learning words like that and seeing you treat mum like rubbish". At one point I stood up (with dan still in my arms) and Im right at his face (he tries to scare people with going right in to your face but I was not for backing down). and Im saying "I'm asking you to stop swearing and stop treating people you supposed to love like crap". i said "do you care about anyone?" No he said "do you like seeing people upset?" as by this point mikeys crying and so is my nephew martin and he says "yes" and I said well your nothing but a sad pathetic old man, go away and stop being an idiot. He went to the toilet and came back but my oldest sis was telling him off aswell. He was still trying to get at me though but she stood in his way.
He really is a disgusting horrible man. I was breastfeeding, now this is my own dad and hes saying really inappropriate comments like he wishes he could do that. He then tried to hug me and felt my bum..whats that about? hes my dad!!!! I was disgusted and horrified. He then talked about sex and sexual things in front of the kids and us (no one wants to hear your dad say stuff like that). He also kept shouting "suck my dick" to my mum in front of Mikey. Arghhhh i hate him. This was only some of the stuff he did all night, he really spoiled it for us. My mums such a lovely lady and he treats her like shit, he calls her names put her down, blames her for everything. he was violent when I was small..like he pushed her a few times and hurt her cause she'd fall horribly. He always made me cry when I got upset by it and then criticised you for crying. He'd punch things. He grabbed me by the throat once and threatened us all at one point. My other sis once kicked him in the balls to prevent him hurting her and as always by the monday morning "he'd say sorry, I was drunk". We are now all sick of it to the point none of us likes him, we all want him to just die and give us all a rest. My mum doesnt deserve it, alot of people say leave but shes the one whos kept the house so well, she looks after the cats the house itself, she has friends next door, she likes it there plus he'd get everything she'd have nothing and she still feels for him because she saw him at his best. Yesterday i found out mum left to go to my sisters because dad was blaming her for us not liking him, I had told him if he acts like this he'll not see his grandkids to which he said he "didnt care". Its sick hes the one to blame for us hating him. Hes always made our lifes hell.
Si says hes "scum", Rab my sisters fiance said he'd have " knocked him out" and they were both disgusted at his breastfeeding comments. Me well I hate him, I've never hated someone so much and I wish he'd leave and never come back. carols amazing, he seems almost scared of her..I think its cause shes the youngest daughter. While shes there shes mums protector and confidante. Today (sunday) is when hes apparently at his worst and I'm so worried about mum being around him. I've always gave him the benefit of the doubt but now I dont even wanna call him dad. Dads too nice a word for him. Hes evil, a sick sad old man! I will be relieved when he dies and I hope its soon..hes bound to be killing himself with drink anyway. Known our luck the old bastard will outlive us all!! I know its sounds awful but if you had him in your life you'd wish he was out of it too.